What’s a quiet life? Is it living on a farm? Or is it a small community? Or is it in the big city? Is it during peacetime? Or war? Is it somebody who lived a short life? Or is it retirement? Is it somebody who travels? Or a stay at home person? Or is it an ancestor you haven’t researched?
I have over 7,000 names in my family tree; covering both my family and my husband’s family. Maybe that’s the quiet life – researching your family tree.
Do I think I have a
quiet life? I have a very busy
life. So, I do need those “down”
times. I grew up on a farm. Yes, it was quiet but it was work – pulling tansy
so that it won’t get mixed in the hay or the cows won’t eat and get sick. You had to get to it before it blossomed and
went to seed. It was hay season
where you had to stack the bales either
on the truck or in the barn. It was
weeding the vegetable garden then harvesting it in the fall. It was moving the cows from one field to
another. It was bringing them in to be
treated for pink-eye. It was feeding
them hay in the winter months. But there
was a fun time! In the winter when it
snowed, we got to go sledding on our own property using an intertube. In the summer, we rode our bikes to either
the river or the neighbors to swim. We
had our quiet times too – camping, fishing, and hiking.
When did genealogy come
to play? 1980. That Kentucky trip? – it was in 1982. 1984 was a trip to Iowa to meet and research
my dad’s family. After that it was just
short road trips to local cemeteries, courthouses, and libraries until
retirement. My husband & I took a
vacation in 2016 by flying to Virginia to visit our son who was stationed
there. We had rented a car and visited
sites in the area before moving on to Washington DC area then on to Butler
County, Pennsylvania. It was in
Pennsylvania that we did some research on my husband’s family. Visited a cemetery, a community that was
owned by an ancestor, and a courthouse.
We returned a few years later (2025).
In 2021, when we did our Route 66 road trip, we took some time to go to
Wisconsin where my family had lived.
Wasn’t able to do as much research as desired. Was going to do more when we were back in the
area last year but that didn’t happen.

